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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").โ€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

you got beef with your ops? girl, you don't even got beef on the plate. call that shit a tofu

( im-vegan )

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Me: "I should probably come out to my parents"

Also me when my mom just casually having her hand on my back: "Oh no, she might notice what I'm wearing"

[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

dreams, sexHad a normal kinda dream devolve into me having anal which was cool I guess, then I had a far more interesting sex related dream but I can't remember any of it :(

[โ€“] queermunist@lemmy.ml 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

rereading a yuri manga that i read five or so years ago

it's still pretty cute

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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

sex toys, genitals, masturbationWhen I masturbate, even just trying to stimulate the tip, I still get erections. Would getting a vibrator help that at all? Also any recommendations? I have heard the magic wand is good, but its a little pricey, and my apartment has very thin walls

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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

What if I bought a set of cat thigh highs and cat ears... haha.... unless :3

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

The different therian subtypes are called theriotypes, that's rad, that's like perfect. Better than the species thing some furries use

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Anytime there's a scifi club, there's always hot feminine coded aliens grinding in cages or otherwise inaccessible

Where are our hot dude coded aliens?! Or even our hot alien-aliens??

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[โ€“] Mousy@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago
[โ€“] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

being a social rejectKinda wish someone would just say this stuff to my face. It's like everyone else knows what my deal is and has decided to see me as an NPC. Literally they all know and just are like "interactions with you end here"

I feel like I'm more likely to explode than to ask a direct question with intent in a social setting or talk to someone who isn't already talking to me first. I feel like there are times where I just stand around hoping someone will interact with me, because I don't trust the interaction to go well if I go up to someone.

And it's not just being quirky and smol or whatever. I like don't have friends and struggle with my goals because I can't talk with confidence ๐Ÿ˜ถ It blows chunks

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

In a lot of Anglo cultures/communities, which most of you are from so this won't be a surprise, wives take their husbands' last names. In queer couples, they sometimes do it sometimes one takes the other etc. Even in hetero cultures, occasionally the husband takes the wifes' last name (very rare). In Quebec and France and probably a bunch of other Franco places, it's not legal to take your spouses last name lol. Best you can do is double barrel.

I have NO attachment to my last name. It's from my dad, who was and remains an asshole. But I wanna be a good strong feminist and also not buy into this Anglo tradition ๐Ÿ˜ญ At least it's not an actual problem, I am at no risk of getting married anytime soon lol but I would be tempted to take my future spouses last name just to cut off that last bit of my dad.

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[โ€“] sneak100@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

So tired all day today, barely got out of bed toriel-snooze

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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (11 children)

thoughts on microwave pizza?

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[โ€“] sneak100@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

sex stuffso if I can't really imagine being comfortable having sex with someone before getting to know them a little bit, does that make me demi? I can imagine a hypothetical scenario in which I'm in a vetted space and might have sex with someone spontaneously, but I'd have to know a lot about the vetting process and be at ease with it in my mind, or maybe I would even need to know and personally trust the people doing the vetting. I guess it kinda feels like I don't really relate to not being able to feel sexual attraction to someone without an emotional connection, but rather, in a world such as this, I don't see a situation in which I wouldn't want that as a way to protect myself from chuddery. So using the demi label might make sense in a practical sense? Kinda like how I might not only like women, but find lesbian umbrella a comfortable place to exist right now (actually it's a bit different, since I actually actively crave connections with women, who I feel like I've been unfairly socially segregated from my whole life, but I hope the comparison makes sense).

I guess I can also imagine having more casual sex in a world where people are much more open and wear their hearts on their sleeve, but that's pretty antithetical to the imperial core, especially neurotypical culture. Also I'm not sure what level of heart-on-sleeveyness would make that happen for me, so maybe that's not a thing lol (might be a healing writing exercise though haha). Idk, any thoughts on this would be interesting to hear.

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[โ€“] nathanfieldertulpa@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

does anyone have any trans lit recs? i just read Tell Me Iโ€™m Worthless and it destroyed me. iโ€™ve already read Nevada, Detransition Baby, Little Fish, and Wild Geese

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[โ€“] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (13 children)

can't sleep, let's have a tea thread.

I like Earl Grey lately for the afternoon for a little caffeine boost (with a bit of oat milk and maple syrup), but I'll also drink sencha or genmaicha.

At night I like camomille, or sleepytime, or Bengal spice, whatever Partner is making.

Since I stopped Spiro we've accidentally ended up with a huge bag of peppermint tea and I'm trying to like it again, because Spiro was gross but I used to like peppermint.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I should have gone back to bed a while ago, I am going to end up so emotional today. On that note, dear god I want to be on hormones :kitty-cri:

[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (29 children)

fucked up in the crib sippin Dr. Perky

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

On the first day of Hallows Eve my true love gave to mee
A bat in a dead oak treeee

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[โ€“] Angel@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

tired but I guess Death Grips is more important

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (5 children)

I watched Beyond the Black Rainbow the other day, it was a good spooky slow burn horror movie. The psychic cinematographic effects were neat. The soundtrack was cool, reminded me of Carpenters movies - evil pulsing synthwave. It wasn't like a heart stopping scare ya Halloween style flick but I enjoyed it.

Also found out it was a Canadian production and a mini budget one! Only ~$1 million.

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