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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").โ€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[โ€“] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

i am in sight of 99 agility in runescape madeline-stare

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[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

I have three fashion styles:

-gremlin in big hoodie and tracksuit pants, just wearing the comfiest clothes

-genderless adventurer on some kind of quest

-nude

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[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

i sat up for too long today and iโ€™m paying for it doggirl-gloom

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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

you know how like sometimes you know a thing is true, but you're kinda annoyed it's true and would rather it wasn't? I feel this about giraffes and horses. like ok you look at a giraffe and you're like oh, it's a tall horse, I get what's going on here, it's related to horses. but no! horses are odd toed ungulates and giraffes are even toed ungulates, and their last common ancestor was like 60 million years ago in the early eocene!!

and like I know this, it is a factual truth, but I don't want it to be! my brain sees a giraffe and is like na mate, that's a big horse. the bastards are more closly related to fucking dolphins than they are horses!

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[โ€“] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

transphobia, introspection, bit depressing I'd say

it's funny that I used to worry so much that I'd never be a real woman. I know very well that I am, but now I also know that I threw away what was actually my ideal body and will never truly he happy with it again

this is a funny thing, because otherwise it would be harrowing

spoiler involves nsfw, suicidal ideation took a picture in similar thigh highs and underwear to pictures I have saved before surgery. I'm so flat down there now.

it makes me want to kill myself :::

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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

getting back in to weird paranormal shit. ghosts, aliens, weird magic stuff all that jazz. and my god none of these people have even just a modicum of critical thought, skepticism about extraordinary claims, or ability to question their own ideas. I want paranormal shit to be real, because it'd be cool and make the world way more interesting, and I know in my heart of hearts I want to believe which is why any time I find myself being swayed I'm like woah ok we gotta touch base here and look critically at this shit. if you want it to be real, you need to be 1000% more skeptical, because your brain is trying to get you to do a dumbass cognative dissonance and look past actual rigorous critical analysis.

why are there so few reasonable 'idk bro, could be somethin, but we'd neeed more evidence. as of right now, this is merely a weird thing that more than likely is nothing' paranormal investigators!

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago

at least marvel writers can be safe in the knowledge they'll never write anything as embarassing as the elon musk scene in iron man 2

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Got my flu and covid shot and now my arms are mad at me about it bleh

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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Transphobia, misgenderingCissies will hear me say I'm a woman, I go by she/her, and will correctly gender me once then never again. Unlimited forced transition on the cis

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Ahhhhhhhhh, I have a couple days off~ I got violin lessons today, trashy TV to watch with my mom, and a union meeting, but tomorrow... tomorrow is gonna be a total chillax day~

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[โ€“] Grownbravy@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago

::: spoiler early AM NSFW thought

A cabinet of dildos, call it the Library of DONGress.

Waking up crying, gross, woke up too early now theres not enough time to fall asleep again

[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Is it toxic that I like when people I date are a little bit annoyed with me?

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[โ€“] Luna@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

It is done (catgirl emojis)

I got rate-limited for this, the bear won't let me upload photos right now

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[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Therapy in 7 mins ๐Ÿ˜

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The negotiating committee says: "this is probably the best deal we're going to get, it's up to membership to decide if this deal is acceptable but we recommend ratification"

The general membership seems to be saying: "we can get better."

And I can sympathize, I do think we can get better. But I don't really have faith that my fellow union members are actually willing to go to the mat to get better, or if they're financially able to. Cause I don't think this government is going to give and I think if we strike, strike pay is SHIT in the first place, they'll legislate back to work - and I don't know about the wherewithal in membership to put up an illegal strike. Cause they will fine us as a unikn, some members (mostly in leadership) will be threatened with fines and even jail time, but it's definitely a struggle we can win to get better pay which is one of the big disappointments from membership. So many of us are living paycheck to paycheck and are single parents and can't afford strike pay for months.

I hope, should we ratify, they keep that anger for the length of the contract, they build up their coffers and solidarity funds and communal stuff, so that the NEXT contract if we don't get a better raise again - then we can go to the mat and wildcat if we need to. But just shouting "fuck you" in general isn't gonna win us much better than the current offer and it could end up worse...

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[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (15 children)

So like... How safe is DIY, really?

Pretty sure I can get my hands on the goods, but I see people here going to get blood work done to check their levels and change dosages, and I just don't see how that would be possible for me.

Like, going in to get blood work, and they're like, "your E levels are super high, we gotta get to the root of this" and I'm like "erm... Yeah"

Just saying I don't think I can have medical support.

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

Kinda wish there were catgirl equivalents to the puppygirl line emotes...

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[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)
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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

idk what I am gonna do with my surplus of estrogen pills when I leave.doggirl-sweat

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[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

pup pronouns added to the site yeyyyyyyy *wagwagwagwagwagwags*

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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)


What do you mean? This is the sole reason I transitioned.

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[โ€“] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

i'm completely dead and still in shock i think. we spent the entire day bailing water out of our flooding house. this rain was like an order of magnitude worse than anything i've ever seen. the landscape has changed, so much soil eroded. not to mention the new person who is just incredibly toxic.

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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

it was really foggy this morning, and my wife sent me a bunch of pictures of the thick fog from her commute making London look like fucking Silent Hill. fog is cool

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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

No work, it's cold and grey outside and i'm huddling under a blanket with my shark reading a fantasy book blahaj top tier day so far

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