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On this mega I shall take the opportunity to rant about one of my favorite things: the Webnovel UNJUST DEPTHS!

Do you love transgenders?

Do you love communism?

Do you love queer romance?

Do you love killing fascists in a giant fucking mech?

Would a plotline with all of these things happening in a underwater retro-futuristic gundam setting intrigue you?

Especially if its actually really well written with good characters, rich worldbuilding, and a marxist leninist transfem author?

All of the answers should be: YES I DO ~~or else I WILL BAN YOU~~

Since you obviously love all of those things then Unjust Depths is perfect for YOU yes YOU! It is DESTINY

The Imbrian Ocean is at a time of severe instability. The monarch of the vast Empire that spans its unjust depths (:3) is sick and nearing death, every territory of the ocean now vying to carve their own Destiny out of the chaos. From the Volk fascists pigmask-off , Zionists hamas-base (they literally will not die why are they still here oh my god), The 'Anarchists' (social chauvanists) lenin-dont-laugh in Bosporus, and the monarchs gui-trans of each vast noble domain, each vies for power and prestige no matter who they crush underfoot, but it would be a pretty depressing story without a bright light in the dark.

On the edge of the Empire sits the glorious Union! The (Soviet) Union soviet-chad is a socialist federation of three states (and one anarchist mountain left-unity-4 )that were formerly slave colonies under the Imbrian Empire until they broke away in a fierce liberation war. They have spent the last 20 years since then building themselves up. Whether they be Human bridget-disco , Shimmi kbity-how (Catgirls who usually follow a religion closely related to modern Islam), and Kattaran transshork-happy (a hybrid humanoid species with characteristics of sea life ranging from sharks to cuttlefish)building socialism side by side.

First lead under the revolutionary leader Dashka Kansal, then the Idealist Ahwalia who lead the country to near ruin in pursuit of building a utopia on pillars of sand, then under the scientific socialist three-heads-thinking leadership of the Grand Marshall of the Union, Bhavani Jayanskar (I love Jayanskar so much shes basically as if Stalin, Lenin, and Zhukov were rolled into the same person but was a black lesbian badass who wore the uniform REALLY WELL)(she aint the main character at all tho shes only in very few scenes i just love her so much). Under Jayanskar, the Union has been growing their economy to both eliminate hunger and give everyone a home chad-stalin , but also growing their military capabilities for the inevitable return of the Empire. The Union is alone, but with the people by its side nothing, not even Destiny, can snuff out true freedoms light. specter

As war wages between the Empire and Republic (basically underwater USA) once more over the lands between them, the facade begins to finally crack...

And a border conflict between the Empire and Union escalate, and the dreaded reconquest begins.

Amidst this turmoil, lives our main characters (yes there are multiple and all of them are lovely). Each of whom I personally love dearly, and are very well characterized. Many are soldiers of the Union, some are scientists, some are divers (mech pilots), some are lost strands finding new meaning after joining this band of Brigands

All are Communists steban

All serve the Union USSR

All would gladly give their lives to defending socialism comrade-stoic

but even they would have little inkling of the adventure set in store for them as the lands beneath the waves erupt in fire, fury, and revolt

Can these transgender badasses kick fascist ass?

Can they kiss? (oh my god please kiss ISTG THERE IS SO MUCH SHIPPING AHHHH ITS GLORIOUS)

FIND OUT HERE: https://unjustdepths.com/

please do or else I will pout incessantly

just try it pleeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase i need to talk to someone about it after Cromalin went AFK

(I miss her, she was a real one)

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

The hoodie that I really wanted is sold out in my size. I was able to find a different one that I also like, but it's twice as expensive and the accent color is different so I have to modify some other parts of the outfit as well.

Really excited to see it come together though! Now I just have to wait for all the pieces to arrive.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

This isn't a well structured post, more a loose collection of thoughts and memories. If anyone has thoughts or experiences I'd love to hear them.

religious trauma, shame around sex.I have a huge amount of shame surrounding sex. I was raised evangelical christian (have since left religion). It was rarely discussed, and when it was only in the context of waiting until marriage or reminding us masturbating was sinful. I believed I would go to hell and be tormented forever, and deserve such punishment, for masturbating. Same with anyone living else in "unrepentant" sin. I still struggle with feeling I deserve to be punished for things I shouldn't.

This has all effected me very strongly. I have kinks, and have felt intense self hatred for them. For a long time, I wished I was ace. Sexuality felt like a curse, something awful that I hated about myself. You aren't "supposed" to feel that way, you have to bury those feelings and desires, you are a bad person for feeling them.

I still feel very uncomfortable with the topic. I'm not sure how to be "normal" about it. I don't know what is acceptable to say, or think, or feel. In safe spaces like this or out in the wild. Autism probably doesn't help me here either. I think processing and accepting that I struggle with shame around it is helping me though.

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (14 children)

I think searching for a nether fortress is actually the worst thing in minecraft. like, the newer nether biomes are cool, but you got like 4 biomes and you spend like an hour wandering around to find this 1 thing. and like, pretty much all you want from there is the blaze rods, and maybe the nether wart. all that for 1, maybe 2, items is just kinda irritating. like ok finding the fortress can also be irritating but you have at least got the eyes to show you where to go. and with say end cities the end is so empty you can spot a city from far away

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (2 children)

The Wurlitzer electric piano is the finest musical instrument ever devised. Put one in your song and I am enamoured instantly. Nice stinky warm tone.

Shouts to the Vox Continental and the Fender Rhodes as well.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Sungay night and everyone is eepin......................

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (9 children)

Kittenposting 🌈🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🛏️

In this house we RESPECT the FLAG(s)

flag-non-binary-pride flag-pan-pride cat-com chairman-meow

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (6 children)

dysphoria, sadI obviously expected my dysphoria would get worse after cracking but kitty-cri It just keeps getting slowly worse and worse. The contrast is awful. I always need something to help me get through.
spoiler self harm talk god, please why does it have to scar like that. Despite what I might want, there is no magic new body coming. I'll be in this fucking thing forever, may as well not mark it all up. If bodies healed just a little bit better... only thing that keeps me from doing it all the time. ::: edit: I am feeling better right now, no need to worry.

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

🎶I found you on the internet🎵
🎶And now i'm your little pet🎵
🎶You make all my dreams come true🎵
🎶Show you my face, and ya never withdrew🎵

🎵 Every filthy, dirty wish🎶
🎵Never fear that you would dismiss🎶
🎵Manifest with a bubble-gum kiss🎶
🎵Now, Picture this🎶

🎶 I'm in a blanket and it's you and me🎵
🎶And we're watching that lost series finale🎵
🎶I know the nation was kind of split🎵
🎶On whether it was a miss or a hit🎵
🎶But then you turn to me and smile🎵
🎶You say. "I think I really liked it"🎵

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Kittenposting 🐈‍⬛💤🐈‍⬛💤🐈‍⬛💤🌛

Curly, Rosie and Felix are having a sleepover with me :3

(This is the first time they've jumped into bed together, Curly laid down on top of me earlier purring super hard and that might have been the happiest I've felt in years. Goggles is in the cat bed by the back door and didn't want to join but he got a tuna treat before bed and purred. meow-melt )

niko-sleep cuddle

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (9 children)

i wanna see babymetal live again. seems fun

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (3 children)

chairman-meow Good (way too early) morning from Chairman Goggles

I felI asleep in the living room like toriel-snooze and woke up around 4am and heard him make a very cute new little quiet trilling noise when he explored the office

also Curly has learned how to open cabinet doors so I think I need to baby proof the house

wtf

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Testing filter

spoilerremoved

meow-bounce

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (13 children)

Did any of you dorks know that Julia Serano wrote a novel?

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[–] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago

i broke my body yesterday, i can't walk, i'm so bored i wanna do things (okay i didn't break anything but i have EDS and i pushed it too far)

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (15 children)

chat, i started reading Orange Book. oh my god it's like someone here wrote it lmao so much of the lingo is the same, it rules

spoilers for first part of the book, s3xthat first scene made me want to cry immediately. oh my god, could i ever fucking relate to being disconnected from emotions, and from feeling like i have to fake sex because i used to like X or because X is "normal" or ... oh my god. wow. where was this book years ago...

there's a lot of drugs which i cant quite relate to, but i still feel Maria and her just kind of numbness. And, fuck, the details, like how both Maria and Steph have had sex with Kieren (sorry I hope i'm spelling his name right), god it's like it is inside my head. the queer/kink community in Big City was so incestuous, I got so deep into the drama and swore off relationships for years after i moved to Smaller City. It was a mess, and left me with a bunch of baggage that I'm still dealing with.

Good book so far

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (11 children)

Has anyone else broken out after laser treatment?

I've got a ton of tiny pimples where they lasered. I'm guessing it's a response to a damaged skin barrier or something. Hasn't happened before

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Stealing the bridget-disco emote for my PFP because she is cute

Also should I get Guilty Gear Strive? For totally unrelated reasons bridget-yoyo-walk

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (2 children)

talking about genitalsreading Whipping Girl now and the fact that there's an entire chapter dedicated to Serano talking about her genitals yet it's only three pages long says a lot through its sheer brevity

also, the sentence "girly little estrogenized penis" got a good cackle out of me

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[–] magi@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (11 children)

cw bloodWhen you shave your legs and realise you've cut yourself when you can smell your blood took-restraint

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