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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 23 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Half a season, she was a fan because it was TS adjacent. My NFL Fandom spans 4 generations. My grandfather and my father, me and now my son. I'm fortunate enough to be able to afford games. I'm not a Bears fan, but I take my son and dad. I'm a Saints fan, so I have to travel to New Orleans for games. I can't even fathom the privilege she gets for showing off her half naked body and exploiting her children.

She's gonna have her little bubble burst when she realizes that her white savior stretch mark bikini warrior shtick doesn't hold weight in Brazil. Newsflash: women with all body types wear thongs to the beach down there and they didn't need permission from a suburban nobody to do it. I really hope this trip opens her eyes to what a "third world" country really looks like (resorts in Mexico don't count) and the IMMENSE privilege she has. I am probably giving her too much credit, though. It'll turn into "I saw children begging on the street and it really made ME sad" while she cries with her frozen face.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 22 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (11 children)

UNFUCKINGBELIEVABLE!!! Of course something she didn’t even pay for and got handed to her and she’s making it like she bought him this great gift.

Some people will NEVER see their team play and she’s getting flown out to Brazil to watch a team she’s like for a half a year all for free. WOW!!!!!! NFL canada needs their inbox flooded.

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 months ago (1 children)

She's super stoked to see M this weekend, though, right? She's SO sad she's (10 minutes) away. She's such a grifter and does anything for engagement and likes. It’s embarrassing.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 23 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Already forgotten about M being gone 🙄 her other kids are an afterthought too (they have been for a month with Sarah crying over M leaving). And this is her third trip in a month leaving her kids behind that she cries over because they’re growing up.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I wonder what she’ll get gifted for her 40th that will beat this. Fuck I can’t stand her.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago

I don’t even want to know. I’m so sick of her getting things handed to her that she doesn’t even deserve.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 months ago

Those poor kids. My teens get upset if I leave for a weekend once in a while. I just take them with me now (unless it's like a Bach or girls trip, but those are rare). We are seeing the world together! And i'm poor lol she could afford to at least bring the 2 middle ones or negotiate for them to come. Teens need us more than we realize. They are changing and transitioning and to feel tossed aside hurts them! Shopping trips don't make up for absence.

[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I haven’t followed 🐦💩 for a while but I don’t recall her having even a passing interest in football ever… She just seems to get whatever she wants despite the fact that ALL she seems to do is gaslight, lie, and grift.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

She decided last year she is going to be the Eagles #1 fan after she watched a Netflix documentary. Shane doesn’t give a rats ass about sports either and yet here they are.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Also I hope the game does get cancelled

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 months ago

Another Sarah trip cancelled bc of wildfires? How would she cope and make it all about her and not the victims of wildfire???

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 19 points 2 months ago (4 children)

So today is the first day of school and she leaves for Brazil tomorrow. I don’t know how things work in other households but that first week back to the regular routine in my house was always chaotic. All the forms coming home in backpacks at breakneck speed, teachers sending the lists of things the kids need for a successful year, helping them get over the nerves of being in a new class. The lists goes on. I can’t imagine being away when I could choose to be home and available. All kids really need to thrive is time and attention - not stuff - but she chooses to think otherwise.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Tomorrow is actually first day of school in Guelph, there’s a PA day today. So she’s actually leaving the DAY her kids go back to school. She sucks, everything is about her, she doesn’t care about anyone else. And it’s B’s first day of high school which can be nerve wracking and he won’t even have his mom, I hope they’re with their dad for back to school.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 25 points 2 months ago (6 children)

RUN to r/ariannachristiesnark someone found Shame's reddit.

[–] Omgitsme@lemmy.ca 26 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I want to say I’m blown away by those horrible comments, but I’m honestly not surprised in the least that he would speak that way. They both give me such disgusting vibes.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I can't look at any more. He commented on a video that showed a woman getting sexually assaulted. he said it's alright. I'm sick of these two not being held accountable for anything.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

He’s a bigger douche bag than I originally thought!

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 19 points 2 months ago

My jaw's on the floor. The racist stuff. Animal torture pXrn. 😵‍💫

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago

THAT needs to go viral.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Just saw! This is amazing sleuthing. Ready for them to be cancelled together!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (6 children)

The hero over on Reddit coming to Birdie’s/Shane’s defense is very “Jen”

[–] Theturdsonfiah@lemmy.ca 28 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Just here to say I finally made a lemmy account to join in on this group, I wasn’t going to but since Shane showed up to Reddit all puffy chested threatening to have that sub shut down too , I had no other choice 😇 she can play her game of whack-a-mole all she wants, I am more than happy to take my findings about her to other places to keep the conversation going. The harder they go on silencing fair criticism the harder I’ll go on sharing it. Fuck around and find out.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 months ago (4 children)

It’s giving very Shane to me 😂

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I was wondering if either one of these Tools even liked the Beatles after they posted this… Now I know.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago

Did Shame strike it rich with bitcoin and that’s why he left his job?

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 19 points 2 months ago

Sarah & Shane aren't paid for #gifted #partner vacations. The choose vacations over parenting. I can't imagine leaving my kids during a school week, especially the first week.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago

I’m surprised she stuck around long enough to drive M down the street to Uni….I guess she needed the performative bs to use for content though. It’s just business as usual for the other 3 kids. Not interesting enough for Birdie.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Her kids are thriving, at their real parents house...their dad. Who has always been there for them. But then there's poor L....shipped off to NK again. That's who her real guardian is. When you think about it, between trips and daily NK daycare..by the time L even gets back home in the evenings and bedtime, Sarah is a "mother" to her for mere hours a week, IF that.

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

As I recall, Sarah doesn't even do bedtime with L, that's Shane's job.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 months ago (14 children)

Did someone get out the fake tan to go to Brazil? Lol. Also her facial expression is so stupid, close your mouth.

She’s gonna be so out to lunch on this trip and not aware of her surroundings at all. I’m sure she’ll find a way to make it all about her too and how scared she was or something.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Pardon my ignorance, but does she have to claim these type of gifted/hosted trips on her taxes? Because I have a hard time believing she does. God I wish she get audited so bad.

Like this is her 3rd hosted trip just in the last month fps

[–] ladybonerforjustice@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 months ago

Technically yes but she’s also posted about not claiming all #gifted items so I wouldn’t put it past her.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 months ago (9 children)

Typical. Must get down to a bra and underwear to sell these shitty overalls.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 months ago

Her tummy is so blurred. What a fraud.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)

All the fabric pulls in the pants are a nice touch 🤣 Such a professional.

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[–] 1hotpoetaytoe@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I have mostly decided to become unbothered by this lady but I am stressed and bored and acting out😂 I cannot believe someone pays her for this nonsense. So much to unpack here, the giant sunglasses indoors, the hideous pockets! And guys you can wear the pieces together or separate!!! Thank goodness she mentioned that or I would have not thought such things possible! WHY WOULD SHE EVEN SAY THAT! Does she think her followers do not know that 🙄

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