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Men in their 40s, what’s one piece of advice for men in their 20s? (lemmy.world)

submitted 3 months ago by TheArstaInventor@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] jo3rn@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

don't give more to someone then they give to you

I tend to disagree on that one. Random acts of kindness/selflessness to people, even complete strangers, can bring bonus satisfaction to your life (and sometimes will be paid back). Make it a habit to give to people, when you have the chance, especially if it is low effort.

If you have people around you that just constantly leech off of you, then I agree: don't let yourself be sucked dry.

[–] Vaggumon@lemm.ee 8 points 3 months ago

I was more referring to your final statement. Those who take and take and never give back to use you with little regard for your own happiness or safety.