Ah well talking shit about work is different than actually changing your primary focus away from it. It's just a form of small talk and they generally change tune when you actually start doing stuff about it in your life. Not coming in on a day when the manager mass-texted us that the building was out of power? I didn't know, but apparently everyone else still came in because "it might have come on later" and I guess I was just supposed to show up out of some distorted form of solidarity?? I get that others needed the hours on their check anyways but I didn't see the point personally.

They'll find shit to talk about. If you decide the place is too toxic and work to cut your hours, that culture of complaining often shifts to include you, especially when you're not there.

Maybe I'm too bitter from my previous job but good gravy am I glad to have quit.