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What's the most seeming trivial thing you'll turn down a GF or BF for? (lemmy.ml)

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[–] radicalautonomy@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

If it's not a hell yes, it's a hell no.

A very common phrase is polyam circles. I'd recommend reading literature by and for polyamorous people if you still find yourself curious, but hesitant. Thorntree Press has a good selection of books to choose from. Also, seek out polyamory groups in your area. There are FB polyamory groups in just about every major city that usually aren't too hard to search for, and those groups will often have a monthly munch which would afford you the opportunity to ask questions of a variety of people who live that relationship style.