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I’m trying to never go back to the other place, but the thing I miss is that there was always a lively conversation going on somewhere. On lemmy, it seems people don’t want to just have a conversation-it’s either serious or techy- I’m looking for light conversations?

Does this happen anywhere on lemmy where responses to your comments come sooner than a day, and people are just sort of in the ‘lobby’ chatting?

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[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago
[-] Dax87@forum.stellarcastle.net 2 points 1 year ago

Lafayette Louisiana here. I just think because it's such a techie group it tends to have a lot of introverts. Me included.

What got my sucked into Lemmy admittedly is the federation nature, which I'm new to. The reddit events was the push I needed to commit to setting up my own instance!

I assume you joined also because of the reddit stuff?

[-] canthidium@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Louisiana crew! I'm from Shreveport, but I live in Colorado now. My ex wife is from Lafayette. Been there a few times.

[-] Dax87@forum.stellarcastle.net 1 points 1 year ago

I lived in Denver for 4 years while I'm the military. Strange coincidence!

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

I want to get back to CO! I’m stuck in FL hell because of uncontrollable circumstances

[-] canthidium@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Eww, I do not envy you. Never been to FL, but I also have no desire to go whatsoever.

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

I’ve been trying to get out for so long, it’s become a joke

[-] canthidium@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

How long have you been there? I left LA the first time when I was 17 for 10 years (military). Then came home for about 8 and left again for here and I don't think I'm going anywhere.

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Since the 1980s lol. I said BACK to CO only because I spent a summer in Estes Park, and always imagined I’d come back to live out there

[-] canthidium@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Oh wow. I would highly recommend it. I love Colorado. I was hesitant to come, but I can't imagine living in the South again. Mostly the politics and racism. I'm half Korean and I just never felt accepted in the south. Always felt out of place.

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago
[-] canthidium@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Lol, yeah probably a common complaint.

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

I see the politics getting more progressive out there, but I remember it being different way back. I need to get my head out of the 90s

[-] canthidium@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

How progressive CO is is one of the main things I love about it. We have an openly gay governor and he's always doing things to help us out. There's definitely pockets of far right. I see trump and maga stickers all the time, but I've yet to encounter any actual racism directed at me. It happened nearly every day back in LA.

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

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[-] CloverSi@lemmy.comfysnug.space 0 points 1 year ago

Oh neat, I'm over in St Pete. Hey neighbor o/

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Hey! I come up for concerts whenever I can

[-] CloverSi@lemmy.comfysnug.space 0 points 1 year ago

That's awesome! I haven't been to any in the area yet. What kind of music you like?

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Last show I saw was at Jannus Live

[-] CloverSi@lemmy.comfysnug.space 0 points 1 year ago

Oh I think I've walked by there, it's next to that bar with the rooftop patio right? Who'd you see?

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Michael Franti. Poured down rain on us

Edit-i think so yes, about the next door rooftop patio

[-] CloverSi@lemmy.comfysnug.space 2 points 1 year ago

I like him, didn't know he was in town. Sucks that it rained but at least there was rain lol, my plants are only barely recovering from the drought. Much better than earlier this year but still pretty dang dry.

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It was last year. October or November I think. It’s so nice to stay at the hotel directly across the street from the venue so you can just stumble over there after the show and hit the rooftop pool. Great time

[-] CloverSi@lemmy.comfysnug.space 2 points 1 year ago

That does sound fun. I used to live real close to downtown, within staggering distance, though sadly I'm a bit too far west for that now.

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It sure beats the way I did it in the 80s and 90s, which was: get ripped on the drive up to Jannus (it was called Jannus Landing back then), drink red stripes for 6 hours while puffing the occasional random joint that went by, then driving the 40 or so miles back to Sarasota with one eye closed

[-] CloverSi@lemmy.comfysnug.space 2 points 1 year ago

Lmao you're not wrong, though I'm surprised you're still alive - and a little impressed. You've been around here a while, what do you think of the area now compared to then? I haven't been here long.

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I don’t want to be that guy, but it’s a completely different place now because of the changes in: attitudes, increasing population, rising costs, transplants from everywhere sort of diluting the og laid-back lifestyle, too many go getter CEOs and shit. Most people didn’t like unnecessary development back then and resisted it, but now development is out of control. Same problems as everywhere, I guess. This part of FL used to be a bit of a secret, so we never had crowds back then in Sarasota, and St. Pete was developed, but sleepy. Different in every way

[-] CloverSi@lemmy.comfysnug.space 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I know I'm really in no place to complain considering I'm a transplant too, but even in just the few years I've been here I've seen the changes. Apartments where there used to be a neighborhood, down to earth local businesses closing to make way for generic northeast-esque city stuff. I moved here with my family when I was still in high school, and I like it, but I'm pretty settled on leaving before I settle down here permanently. Hard to say where to though.

[-] toasteranimation@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I mean, it’s happening anywhere there are tourist attractions. People come for a visit to FL, go back to New Jersey or wherever and look around and ask themselves what the hell they’re doing there, sell the farm and move down. At a rate of 1000 per day

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