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How is the prom experience for everyone? (lemm.ee)

submitted 6 months ago by shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee to c/casualconversation@lemm.ee

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It's definitely hard to miss all the people where I live pulling out of driveways in dresses and people taking pictures across all the public areas, it really lets you know it's prom time.

What's your experience with prom (or multiple proms if you went to others too)? How did everyone look? How was it celebrated? Was it good?

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[–] dingus@lemmy.world 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

As a socially anxious loner, I didn't go to prom. Didn't end up feeling much like I was missing out either. I had been to a few school dances in the past and they always made me very uncomfortable and I didn't find them fun. I didn't like how much of a big deal they were made out to be. The one time I had fun around a school dance was when I was hanging out with some people either beforehand or afterwards (can't remember which) and that part of it was fun. The dance itself wasn't.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 6 months ago

In a way, you weren't missing out. Where I live, children (myself included when I was younger) have an odd tradition of going to everyone's proms except sometimes our own (or including our own). They vary a lot but it's like you have to really look to find the fun ones. And I'm guessing very few people enjoy the dance part because only a quarter of the people (does not include me) actually know how to dance. A common joke during the dance part is to say "I forgot to study for this".