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(Ladies of Kbin/Lemmy/etc!) Does a woman generally have as strong of an urge to get an orgasm compared to a man's urge to get ejaculation? (kbin.social)

submitted 6 months ago by Damaskox@kbin.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I believe that if a man and a woman get together and both sides get turned on, the man is more likely to be more desperate to get off.

Is it common among women though?

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[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The female orgasm is pretty easy for me to achieve alone. I can generally come within 5 minutes if I really want to.

Coming during sex is totally different, but that’s because of the other factors involved, not because female orgasms are inherently rare or difficult for everyone.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

Yeah same, it's always been between about 30 seconds and 5 minutes, with occasional "it's not gonna happen" times, and as I get older more multiples too, that didn't happen for me when young. Husband is about 3 minutes on the low end, usually 10, sometimes hour or more and still wants to get off, I would give up way before that.