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It's honestly less about the particular thing than noticing that they're receptive and actually do want to hear what I have to say. The last thing I want is to just like bore someone with something I find fascinating. I'm sure I end up doing this anyway sometimes, but I try to be aware enough to notice before going full on ramble mode.

People seem suuuper receptive to like counter-cultural and anti-authoritarian ideas and generally to anything that transcends preconception. They like honesty and realness that can exist comfortably without kissing ass or being a jerk. Just like expressing the idea that art and joy can have premacy over toil and misery seems to be sort of a revelation for some people. That you can just like, breathe, and not focus on making sure every little thing is just so.

Also like, music. But none of that is really explaining things to people, it's just talking through stuff organically and in the process kind of giving them the freedom to realize what they usually already know. Music is a good example of this because most humans understand music quite intimately, they just don't have the language of music theory to break down what's going on and discuss it. But even with a little bit of that, you can see them light up with what they already know.

I tend to play information-focused characters on RP servers, and a lot of what I do comes down to spying, questioning, interrogation, and organizing others to collect information. When you ask someone if they saw anything useful, the answer you usually get will be no. If you ask if they can tell you anything about a person, they'll usually say they didn't get a very good look.

But if you ask if they had a hat on, they'll know. If you ask what color their shirt was or if they were wearing a jacket, they'll know. Same with piercings, tattoos, odd sayings or personal quirks, whether they were smoking, etc. The reality is that people know all kinds of things that they assume aren't relevant. But if you ask the right questions, you can uncover loads of information.

The same is true of music, of art, of sooo many things. The barrier for entry isn't that people don't have the tools, it's that they don't recognize the tools they have. If I can point to a tool that's already in someone's hand, that feels pretty awesome.

Okay, so maybe this tangent is illustrative in more ways than one.