this post was submitted on 31 Mar 2024
80 points (100.0% liked)

the_dunk_tank

15914 readers
12 users here now

It's the dunk tank.

This is where you come to post big-brained hot takes by chuds, libs, or even fellow leftists, and tear them to itty-bitty pieces with precision dunkstrikes.

Rule 1: All posts must include links to the subject matter, and no identifying information should be redacted.

Rule 2: If your source is a reactionary website, please use archive.is instead of linking directly.

Rule 3: No sectarianism.

Rule 4: TERF/SWERFs Not Welcome

Rule 5: No ableism of any kind (that includes stuff like libt*rd)

Rule 6: Do not post fellow hexbears.

Rule 7: Do not individually target other instances' admins or moderators.

Rule 8: The subject of a post cannot be low hanging fruit, that is comments/posts made by a private person that have low amount of upvotes/likes/views. Comments/Posts made on other instances that are accessible from hexbear are an exception to this. Posts that do not meet this requirement can be posted to !shitreactionariessay@lemmygrad.ml

Rule 9: if you post ironic rage bait im going to make a personal visit to your house to make sure you never make this mistake again

founded 4 years ago
MODERATORS
 

Uhhh, what the fuck?

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] SootySootySoot@hexbear.net 14 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (3 children)

But nobody was doing that, in this case? There was no mention of 'giving grief'.

The husband voluntarily shared his location for practical reasons, a few times she happened to see he was stopped at a bar or a fast-food place instead of work where he claimed, and that was a weird phenomenon that impacted her trust in him. She realised she was getting too obsessed looking at his location. They later divorced for entirely unrelated reasons.

This isn't really that wacky.

[–] alexandra_kollontai@hexbear.net 12 points 7 months ago (1 children)

But nobody was doing that, in this case? There was no mention of 'giving grief'.

True but this is only one side of the story

[–] SootySootySoot@hexbear.net 1 points 7 months ago

Yes? But that doesn't mean we can just assume random assertions.

[–] Teapot@hexbear.net 9 points 7 months ago (1 children)

There was no mention of 'giving grief'.

There was definitely the implication. She said he wouldn't admit to going to get fast food. That means she gave him grief over it, after catching him in the "lie"

[–] SootySootySoot@hexbear.net 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Maybe we have different ideas of "giving grief", but inquiring about where someone was does not amount to it in my mind.

[–] Teapot@hexbear.net 3 points 7 months ago

I think you can read between the lines. This lady was literally tracking her husband constantly and confronting him about his whereabouts.

[–] combat_brandonism@hexbear.net 9 points 7 months ago (1 children)

They later divorced for entirely unrelated reasons.

eh idk that the author even claims that

[–] SootySootySoot@hexbear.net 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Our marriage ended not long after, its demise not caused... by the transparency offered by a shared location