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how's your week going, Beehaw (beehaw.org)

submitted 7 months ago by alyaza@beehaw.org to c/chat@beehaw.org

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busy week, taking a bunch of notes, not much time to talk

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[–] Alice@beehaw.org 18 points 7 months ago

Been a rough week. Friend is going through a crisis and pushing everyone away. I'm simultaneously worried and mad. He kept giving reasons for being mad at us that contradicted his previous reasons, before going no contact with all of us.

I've checked his socials here and there to make sure he's alive. I'm sure he'll be back but I don't think I can keep doing this.

My siblings have both already done the thing where they threaten to kill themselves then get mad when I take it seriously. I can't have a third person doing that.

Sorry if that was heavy. It's just hard because I love him but I carry all this grief from people who keep telling me they'll die if I make a wrong move...