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I am not a native English speaker and I have sometimes referred to people as male and female (as that is what I have been taught) but I have received some backlash in some cases, especially for the word "female", is there some negative thought in the word which I am unaware of?

I don't know if this is the best place to ask, if it's not appropriate I have no problem to delete it ^^

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[–] pr06lefs@lemmy.ml 18 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Interesting point with adjectives vs nouns.

'a Frenchman' would be more correct than 'a French'. Because French is only an adjective, while American and German are both nouns and adjectives. But Frenchman is not gender neutral like German or American.

Could go with Francophone, but that's any french speaking person so that includes canadians, africans, etc.

And, it would seem to make sense to go with Frank, but the Franks were originally germans, then expanded their territory to include France, and the name stuck there but not in their original territory, so is it really correct to refer to the French as Franks? Since no one does it, I would guess not.

[–] amelia@feddit.de 2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Not a native speaker here. Would a French woman also be 'a Frenchman's and if not, how would you refer to a French woman correctly?

[–] pr06lefs@lemmy.ml 4 points 9 months ago

"Frenchwoman" perhaps? But that sounds a bit dated to me. I'd probably go with "French person" or "French people".

[–] locuester@lemmy.zip -1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

3 years ago, “man” in that context was considered gender neutral. More recently tho a lot of stink is being made about little language things like this. Theres no replacement word to use.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 9 points 9 months ago

Frenchwoman and Frenchperson are both ridiculous enough to try, but maybe go with Frenchie just to see if they'll punch you.

[–] Mr_Blott@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

includes canadians

Pffft barely, mon ami 😂

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 1 points 9 months ago

Québécois then.