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[–] newIdentity@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My main problem is meeting new people

[–] ratz30@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Have you tried finding a hobby that involves interacting with people?

[–] agitatedpotato@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

God no, that sounds awful. Unrelated, DAE wonder why they're alone?

[–] newIdentity@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Currently my main hobby is chilling with people. I also meet lots of new people, but the problem is that they're

  1. Mostly male
  2. Wayy too young or wayyy too old
[–] ratz30@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Well, if what you're doing isn't working you should try something else. Try something more active than just chilling, and engage in a less male dominated community. You could volunteer your time somewhere, or join a club or team.

Your hobbies don't even need to be mainstream, if you're more of the nerdy persuasion there are plenty of women in the RPG and LARP scenes for example.