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[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 30 points 10 months ago (4 children)

One thing atheists often ignore is that being part of a religion means being part of a community, a group. That alone is reason enough for many people to stick with it.

Sure, the preacher/priest/whatever may be a scammer asshole, but this isn't about him, it's about me and the people around me. I belong in here and so do these people.

Remember, humans are social creatures. Being part of a group is a big fucking deal.

Another thing I've been giving some thought, religion can be a "lazy shortcut" for the brain to acknowledge some stuff without having to spend too much energy thinking about it. It's a lot easier to wrap your head around "Because God wants it" than digging deep into the hows and whys of anything. No, it's not scientific in the least, but humans are lazy. I am lazy, you are lazy, everyone here is lazy, we just opt to save energy in different things.

[–] GONADS125@lemm.ee 15 points 10 months ago

I've known atheists who go to church for the community. I'm an atheist, and I have recommended going to a nondenominational church to other atheists who had said they really lacked community support.

Of course, sometimes religious community systems can actually be very hostile and nonsupportive and downright exploitative. Really just depends on the specific church community. Just like there are some great people and some major assholes out there. Churches are no different.

[–] Urist@lemmy.ml 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Wonder why atheists often do not value the communal aspect of a community they are often excluded from. It is almost as if they do not value not being included in the group? Also, lazy shortcuts often lead to bad outcomes. Being wary about that is a good thing, in my opinion.

[–] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

Hey, who are you calling lazy. I,m not lazy, I just choose to do nothing at all. ;)

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

being part of a religion means being part of a community, a group.

The local crafting circle doesn't endanger children and carpet bomb the neighbours, though.

[–] hightrix@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Don’t be silly, neither does the local church.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The funny thing is that that kind of talk of the previous poster is just a bad type of generalization, a lazy shortcut. The existence of bad elements within a large group is a given. There are pedophile priests, just as there are pedophile uncles or teachers. The only difference here is in how accountable they are for their actions, as the Roman Catholic Church is well known for protecting its abusive priests, which isn't too different from Epstein's friends having money shields.

As for carpet bombing and general violence, one could say it's "politics as usual". When words fail (whether on purpose or not is irrelevant here), violence emerges, because one side wants to impose its will. Religion is just another lazy (and often effective) shortcut to rally people behind a cause, not unlike patriotism

[–] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

When words fail

George Bush said god spoke to him in a dream and told him to invade Iraq to usher in the apocalypse.

[–] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

No, but they enable those that do.