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Sure, the first year (or two) of COVID were wretched, but most of those barriers have since cleared — yet I'm still struggling. I've noticed the same with a number of people within my family and neighbourhood.

How are others feeling? Are you struggling, yet succeeding? If so, how are you breaking through?

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[–] PrettyLights@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

This is something I've felt more and more every year for all the holidays in the areas of the US I frequent. Halloween, Xmas, Easter, etc.

The stores are all decorated earlier than ever, but neighborhoods are barren.

I understand money is tight for many, but Christmas lights are pretty cheap and most people have old sets, it's not like they're consumable and need to be replaced every year. I wonder if people are just over it, don't have the time, lack the spirit, or what.

I say all this as someone who hasn't decorated for any holidays lately myself.

[–] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Because what is the point? I only bother with decorations because I have kids. After they grow up I won't bother. Also yeah I don't particularly want to get into it because it feels like I am taking the Christian's side. They are sitting there putting women in jail for having miscarriages maybe I don't want to associate with them even slightly.