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[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 63 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Learn CPR for infants and small kids. It's usually a different or additional class to standard adult and kid CPR that I think goes down to 2 year olds. You don't want that memory.

Always wait a second before going if you're in the front after light turns green. See too many fucking murderous psychos trying to save 20 seconds by roaring through fully red lights that they missed when it turned from yellow.

Add a water filter with pump to your survival kit. Costs like $20 bucks and means you could drink out of a damn stream in a disaster if mains burst, etc. given the state of poor emergency response and planning that has been on display in the US since Katrina and continues through COVID, NO ONE is planning or going to save you. Water is as important as it gets.

Insulated foil bags/blankets for your car. If you get suck and have to sleep overnight, if you run out of gas they might mean the difference between keeping toes, legs, fingers or your life. They're like $5 and smaller than a deck of cards and weigh almost nighting.

Always have a hatchet in your trunk. It's a hammer, a cutting tool, weapon, and 500 other things I learned reading The Hatchet as a kid.

Know how to find north, and read a map.

Go for your free annual checkups, especially if you're healthy--keep yourself that way!

[–] Frozengyro@lemmy.world 20 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I would add in addition to waiting a second after the light turns green, look both ways while you're waiting. Takes almost no time, but saves lives.

[–] Lemmygizer@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago

Please repeat that to the guy who ignored a stop sign and hit me in a zebra crossing last week.

Thankfully for me, I was paying attention. I managed to hop on the hood and roll through the impact.

[–] mememuseum@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

A few years ago a dump truck slid through an intersection in front of me and the light was green my way. It was going too fast for the road conditions. If I hadn't looked, it would have t-boned me on the driver's side.

[–] Bizarroland@kbin.social 5 points 11 months ago

I have been tboned by a person who didnt stop at a red light. If I had waited 2 seconds they would have missed me completely.

I got sent to the hospital, they tried to say I ran the light. Fortunately helpful bystanders corrected her and she was found at fault.

[–] Lionel@endlesstalk.org 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Are the blankets you mention the same as the thermal Mylar blankets or space blankets?

[–] pdxfed@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago
[–] Mirshe@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I agree with the second one. I very nearly wound up compacted into jello after a semi blew through a light and t-boned the driver's side back end of my work van going a good 50-60 MPH. Now everyone on the road thinks I drive like a grandma, but I'd rather be slow and make everyone behind me upset than be dead.