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I believe that identity is wholly a social and natural construct. It is a function of ego. There is no true self-identity. To understand your identity, you have to remove every aspect of society and nature. You are constantly pushed and pulled by what or who is around you. Are you by friends? You identify by how your friends expect you to act. Are you at work? You identify by how your coworkers, boss, or customers expect you to act. When you are alone, you identify by the things you surround yourself with, be it video games, books, or your sour dough starter. Even in nature we let our ego be adjusted by the trees, a river, clouds, or sunshine.
Put yourself into a sensory deprivation tank for a few days and you'll start to get a clear view of your real self, which is conveniently about the time it drives you insane.
I think this is very true. Your identity changes depending on who you’re around, and that’s fine. There’s a lot to about building identity, and it’s all about social acceptance within a group as foundational.
Can you elaborate on the last part?
It's better if you read around on it, you'll get better information than I can provide from this tiny keyboard on my phone, but the basic principal is that you get into a "float tank" or "isolation tank" or whatever the hippy selling it to you calls it, and you are completely blocked off from the outside world, with no sight, sound, or feeling. In short bursts there is some very weak medical evidence that it can help alleviate certain conditions or "open your mind," but prolonged exposure, especially for days on end, is basically torture. You have no sense of time inside one. A day can feel like a year. I've read first hand reports saying that they will get into it, and they will think they have been in it for hours when it's been only 15 minutes. You can Google tons of stories and anecdotes about them, but take them with a grain of salt, as they have no real medical backing and are at best fringe medicine akin to chiropracty.