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xD fair point. I guess we all have different tolerances for different stuff. I was dating women in their 40s when I was in my 20s so maybe the age gap stuff flew over my head when I read them. I just finished a really enjoyable book by Stephen Baxter called 'World Engines', the main character also appears in other books by him and I really, really struggled with it purely based on the character.
He's called Malenfant, and would you believe it, he's bad-tempered! 'Malenfant grunted:', 'Malenfant snorted', Malenfant scowled, oh very subtle Stephen. He is capable of imagining such diverse creatures, thought patterns and genuine 'hard sci' concepts, then went with 'grumpy old man' for the protag. There's enough grumpy old men running the place already, I'd prefer my fiction to be a respite from that!
Looking forward to his next book about a protaganist paralysed by indecision called Soppy McSimpleton.