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Can porn be used in a healthy way? or should it be avoided completely? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by racsol@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] mustbe3to20signs@feddit.de 24 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It can be used in healthy ways, to explore your own preferences and fetishes, for relaxation, to learn your partner's desires, you name it.

But as with everything the dose makes the poison. When your thoughts are permanently around your next chance to watch porn, you search (and probably find) ways to watch in public/inappropriate settings, ... Then you have a problem.