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Gen Z is turned off by onscreen sex, wants no-mance over romance, a new study finds
(www.latimes.com)
this post was submitted on 28 Oct 2023
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Gen Z have an inability to engage with challenging adult material. They have been groomed by Marvel to just watch children's material for their entire lives.
Sex is normal and healthy. Not every scene in everything serves to advance plot, scenes can flesh out character relationships and scenes can just be plain fun to watch.
We have an entire generation of people who are basing all of their knowledge of sex with porn. This leads them to believe that all intimacy is shameful and pornographic. It's leading to a revival of puritanical conservative values in a generation who brands themselves as progressive despite having a habit of wanting everything they personally are challenged by to be censored. Whether that be views on social media, famous individuals they disagree with or even the art we consume.
Do yourself a favour and watch some high class cinema that has good sex scenes. Watch some David Lynch instead of Iron Man or Hunger Games.
What a load of elitist bullshit. Being progressive does not mean one likes watching random people having sex, especially if it doesn't fit the tone of the move/show and especially especially if it's horribly directed, as they usually are.
It used to be the bible bashing conservatives who complained about sex and violence on television. Now it's the young people who pride themselves on being progressives, when in reality they lose their shit when anybody says or does anything they don't personally agree with in much the same way. They aren't progressive, they're extremely intolerant and want to push their opinions on everyone else. I can't wait for culture to inevitably swing back round in backlash and for people to stop giving a fuck like in the 90s.
whoole lotta projection going on here
i want rub dik I go pornhub i want story i go movie
This is exactly the problem right here. We have a generation of people that think sex is just about getting themselves off and nothing deeper or more meaningful than that. Just a bodily function with one purpose, disposable and void of meaning.
It is rarely ever portrayed as anything deeper or meaningful in current media.
Pooping is normal and healthy.
I don't mind a bit of pooping in my movies either.
Me either, but I don't get bent out of shape when someone doesn't want to watch someone poop.
I grew up during the time when sex scenes on HBO and Cinemax were the closest thing to porn on tv. I can't think of a worse sex scene than The Specialist, with Sly Stallone. It was silly and unnecessary. I even found it weird as a teen. That says a lot. There were many scenes like this in many films.
You can include sex without dramatizing / showcasing it. I don't blame young people for finding these old tropes to be a digression. See my other comment about sex in The Sopranos to confirm that I'm not anti-sex in media.
There are bad scenes of any variety in media. Why focus on sex scenes?
Why shouldn't sex be dramatised or showcased? Its far lamer to just fade to black and wink, for god's sake we're adults.
It's far lamer to shoehorn in a long sex scene that doesn't make sense. See sex in Sopranos, as I mentioned. It's not overdone. It happens and we move on.
What doesn't make sense about long sex scenes? They're not exactly hard to follow.
Even still I'm not convinced that long sex scenes are ubiquitous in the way you are suggesting outside of things like fifty shade of grey.
I guess you didn't watch a lot of mainstream movies on HBO in the 90s. They were gratuitous at the time.
Neither did Gen Z, that's not what they are complaining about.
You're right, but you're missing the forrest for the trees. Deliberately, I think.
To me they just sound exactly like the conservatives in days gone past, outraged at the prospect of sexual content. Media is better when people let creatives do their thing and people stop worrying about every damn thing being done "correctly" I.e following their formula or prescription.
With the amount of choice we have now, why anybody chooses to watch things they don't want to consume to then complain about it online is absolutely beyond me.
Your comment is typical of a subset of progressives that have no acceptance for people who do not share the same values as them. Dare I say, that is not very progressive of you? What is wrong with having "puritanical conservative values" when it comes to relationships? Must one forcibly engage in orgies with strangers to be a "proper" progressive?
I just don't think defining yourself in opposition to everything makes you a progressive. I'm clearly on the libertarian end of the axis here. I'm not the one advocating for art to only be done in a specific way that caters to my personal sensibilities and weirdness over sex.
Fuck that noise, I just don't think we need smooching, sex and all that shit in every goddamn movie. Shit's not needed, breaks the flow and is basically there only because everyone else does that. Fuck that noise. And no, these scenes do fuck all in most movies to fleshing out character, quite often they actually make it more shallow by being either uncharacteristic or feeling shoed in, dammit.
And if anything, from what I see around people are hella more open about sex. Thanks to overabundance of porn and all, sex became normalized. At least a lot more than when I was a child.
Being from a generation that was exposed to porn early doesn't make you more open with sex. It makes you have a warped relationship with sex, to the point where you find smooching disgusting.
Oh, do you find it disgusting? Because I don't - I find it unnecessary, as said before.
Sex, showing feelings and care are normal - doesn't mean I need it in every goddamn movie.
It's really not in every goddamn movie for starters and when it is it's extremely toned down: no penetration, no vulva, no boners.
The biggest movies of this year had basically no sex bar Oppenheimer. Barbie, Guardians of the Galaxy, Avatar. Culture is already tame as hell and antiseptic compared to the past I literally don't even understand where the criticism is coming from.