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dunk tank because we're dunking on this lady's baby daddy

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[–] WithoutFurtherRelay@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I’ve heard of even weirder circumstances where people used porn, like D&D games

It is definitely only for private consumption. And I have never seen a situation where it was consumed publicly and was even remotely ok. Maybe if you’re a hardcore voyeur but even then what happened in this post is absurd.

[–] disownthelibs@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If you have cool friends sharing pornography with them isn’t weird.

[–] WithoutFurtherRelay@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

depending on exact friends, yes, but the d&d game was like someone jacking off to it during the session without anyone else consenting

[–] SuperNovaCouchGuy2@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

jacking it to a d&d game

"look at those sexy dice... that beautiful low-tech pencil and paper setup... not a screen in sight... oh god... i... i... i-m COOOMING!!!"

miyazaki-laugh

[–] usernamesaredifficul@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think it would be fine if everyone there agreed to it but that's very unlikely and would require prior arrangement

[–] CthulhusIntern@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I can also imagine sharing it if you made the porn and are proud of it, and have friends you know are cool with seeing it.

yeah it basically boils down to consent if everyone there consents to it and is capable of giving the consent (here assuming the same for the people in the porn) then it's fine

Arguably there are compications because someone's significant other might not be thrilled but that's just regular sex stuff