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[–] Nima@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

"Sup dudes" is what I use. easier.

edit: if there's any confusion, always defer to the philosophy of Ed from Good Burger.

"I'm a dude. He's a dude. She's a dude. Cause we're all dudes! (hey!)"

[–] Steeve@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Dudes, guys, and boiiii are gender neutral terms and that's a hill I'll die on

[–] Vodik_VDK@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well get ready to, 'cause I need you to go to the bar and ask a straight man if he fucks dudes, guys, or boiiiiis.

[–] Steeve@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Vodik_VDK@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

What's his business?

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Careful, some weirdos will get offended at that one for absolutely no reason.

[–] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

I addressed everyone as dudes in a work email once, a woman I worked with mentioned she wasn't a dude. Yes, she was just messing. The next email I addressed it to Glorious Comrades. It became an inside joke between us for a while.

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Maybe, but that's like.. Their opinion dude

[–] Kase@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

you can't just say that, what if they're not a dude? ⁠(⁠•⁠ˇ⁠_⁠ˇ⁠•) /s

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"so I was making out with this dude" is not gender neutral though

[–] Nima@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

the post was for ways to address large groups of people without offending anyone. "Sup dudes" is my answer to that.