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I have noticed that I interact a lot more in Lemmy than I ever did in any social media. Let it be Reddit, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter... I am used to be the lurker, but here for some reason things are different. Wonder if more people feel like I do.

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[–] JasSmith@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I agree. On Lemmy, saying the wrong thing on the wrong community is like stepping on a landmine. The ideological differences are wild. Maybe I just need to get used to this and block the worse communities. It certainly feels very hostile. Especially from leftwing users and communities.

[–] Mchugho@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I consider myself to be moderate left. But I may as well be a fascist in the eyes of some for pointing out flaws that are inherent in utopic thinking. I think social media only rewards those at the extremes with serious engagement now and these echo filters drive people to holding ever more extreme views.

I think a lot of people spend so much time online and so little time engaging with their local communities that they lose sight of how their opinions actually map out in the world and the nuances of how society actually engages and compromises. This is true of the left and the right.

[–] JasSmith@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Well said. I suppose we can all be guilty of this, and this is why I try to engage with people of with many different ideological positions. It's not always comfortable to confront out own beliefs and biases, but I do think it makes us more well-rounded.

[–] trash80@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 year ago

But I may as well be a fascist in the eyes of some for pointing out flaws that are inherent in utopic thinking.

I've seen a lot of overreaction to mild criticism lately as well.