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[–] Deceptichum@kbin.social 19 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Is that a joke or are people actually saying this?

[–] crawley@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It's a consensual rape fantasy kink. It was actually featured in an episode of House.

[–] Maddie@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No consensual non-consent is a real thing, it's a specific kind of sex roleplay

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I guess "rape play" was a bit too forward

[–] Maddie@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

People still use that term too, but the R-word can be a bit triggering to a lot of people, I think it helps to have a different term to call it that emphasizes that it really is consensual even though the fantasy you're playing out is that it isn't

[–] Draedron@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

Saying rapeplay is also a thing. But CNC is usually broader

[–] CADmonkey@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

It's a real thing. If you have a very trustworthy partner it can be a lot of fun, from either perspective.

[–] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

it's a common term on fetlife, yes