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Oh no, my miserable life that’s devoid of any connection and anyone altogether otherwise *at least contains a friend.

What the fuck man, is this a real concern average people have that I’m way too fucking alienated to understand

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[–] Fuckass@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I’m pretty sure most people complain about the friend zone not because their crush remains their friend and only their friend, but because after the revelation of a crush and being rejected, being a friend with that person is often incredibly awkward going forward and it will become short lived. Essentially, the friend zone is a 2 weeks notice before the two parties stop being friends with each other (or awkwardly attempting to start a friendship)