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Imagine being afraid of the ‘friend zone’ (hexbear.net)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Lussy@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net
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Oh no, my miserable life that’s devoid of any connection and anyone altogether otherwise *at least contains a friend.

What the fuck man, is this a real concern average people have that I’m way too fucking alienated to understand

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[–] Lussy@hexbear.net 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah see, even if I was deeply interested in a romantic relationship with that person, I’d never take it to the next level and stay within boundaries out of fear of not losing them.

Is that conceited?

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago

Nah, it just seems like a defense mechanism I guess. As @red_stapler@hexbear.net, we learned our lessons.

Wish I had thought like you did at the time. Oh well. Maybe in another life.