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Jesus christ. Nobody should go through that. I'm so sorry.
Honest question do you view someone fetishizing you and liking you for you as mutually exclusive? Like I'm pro basketball level tall, and if someone fetishized that I think I'd just view that as me not having to work as hard to turn them on.