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Have you ever been sexually attracted to someone you found repulsive? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by spitz@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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It happened to me recently at work. I don't even find her physically attractive, and her personality is not what I'm into at all. But I was still somehow attracted to her - and she also was to me. She didn't like me, and I certainly am not the kind of man she goes for. It's like we had a strong connection in one area beneath the subconscious or something, but every other area was completely incompatible. Aggressively so.

Anyone else have anything similar?

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[–] Droechai@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

First date questions:

Do you believe in the moon?

Would you describe the world as a sphere, a disc or a construct created by the elders of Zion designed to keep people distracted from something else?

Hmm, maybe it's third date questions, together with questions regarding family goals and values and where they want to be in five years time?

[–] axont@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

at first I thought you said elders of Zeon and I imagined accidentally dating Char Aznable in disguise

but yeah I'm gonna have to start asking basic questions about the moon landing, validity of trans people, and even if humans evolved from earlier primates