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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[โ€“] cryomancer20x6@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think that the problem was that they tried to make it "social media." Forums are not social media. Full stop. They tried to make all engagement a thing, tried to spam ads, and bully people onto one mobile platform. That said, yeah - I'm a bit heartbroken. It makes me sad to want to leave subs that I've been a part of since the Digg migration.

[โ€“] LetterboxPancake@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Meh, forums can be social, at least I've been in some that were. Reddit was special in this regard I think. I didn't really check whom I was replying to and it didn't matter. It was the topic and the discussion and the Monty Python jokes, never the person.

That is entirely different from the concept of social media. Anonymous posting is intrinsically different from trying to either share stuff to your irl friends or build a brand etc.