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My brother didn't vote and in person around family, he is not a Trump supporter but he is conservative. Publicly via social media, he's never once said a bad thing about Trump and has never hesitated to strawman shit on Dems. During the run up to the election, he made some comments about Kamala after the first debate, and it was all just horseshit takes. I typed a dozen messages and deleted them because what I was going to send would have been one of those things you don't come back from. Instead I've completely cut him out of my life and I'm on active avoidance. The only saving grace for him, is that I know he didn't vote for Trump, which means almost nothing, but he didn't actually do the worst thing. Because of that, in 4 years, I'm going to assess the damage of this Presidency and make a choice on if I will ever even consider seeing him again or if he's dead to me. I will never forgive him and we will never have a relationship, but there's a chance that we might both be able to go to familial gatherings, like funerals in the future.
For me, this isn't a very difficult decision. We've never really been super close since he's quite a bit older, but we were good. I'm fully prepared to miss significant events to avoid him. I'm not sure what your relationship with your father is like, but one thing you have to consider is how it's going to affect anything else family related, like family reunions, funerals, weddings, holidays, etc. Make sure that you think of all of the effects this may have before jumping the gun and doing something you can't undo. You can certainly try and salvage the relationship and have a serious heart to heart where you lay it all out, and if that's not enough, then I suppose that the decision is easier. Alternatively, if you're ready to be done, you have the option of sending him something with a reason, telling him what's up and bye, or ghosting him. If you ghost him, that will make any chances of rebuilding a future relationship a lot harder.
Best of luck.