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Comic Strips is a community for those who love comic stories.

The rules are simple:

The post can be a single image, an image gallery, or a link to a specific comic hosted on another site (the author's website, for instance).
The comic must be a complete story.
If it is an external link, it must be to a specific story, not to the root of the site.
You may post comics from others or your own.
If you are posting a comic of your own, a maximum of one per week is allowed (I know, your comics are great, but this rule helps avoid spam).
The comic can be in any language, but if it's not in English, OP must include an English translation in the post's 'body' field (note: you don't need to select a specific language when posting a comic).
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Adult content is not allowed. This community aims to be fun for people of all ages.

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[–] Huschke@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

As a parent and a former uncle, I can tell you that it's not comparable in the slightest. One is just having fun with a kid, while the other fills you with a sense of purpose unlike anything else.

[–] underisk@lemmy.ml 16 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Every single one of you sound like you’ve bought into a cult. I don’t need to spit out some kid to feel purposeful and content, just appreciate that I’m visiting to give you a break from parenting and let it go.

[–] uranibaba@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago

I've heard it said before that having your own and seeing someone elses' children is not the same, the whole "you cannot understand until you have your own yada yada".
As a parent myself, I would never recommend anyone to have kids who really don't want it. It's okay to never want to see a child again, if that is was you want. I love being a parent but that is my experience and my life.

If you are fine as it is now, then there is not need to change it. What should matter to you is that you are happy, not someone else.

[–] jaschen@lemm.ee -1 points 5 days ago

Real talk. We appreciate you helping watching and playing with our kids. It's enrichment for our kids and they are growing to enjoy the company. But this is NOT the purposeful and content part of parenting.

My son was being bullied at school and didn't know how to speak out for himself or even tell the teacher it was happening. My wife and I have been helping him vocalize and visualize how to express his discontent in a healthy way and also have the ability to report it to the teacher.

After months of this last week my son reported it to the teacher for the first time this year. I was so proud of him for speaking up to his bully and telling a teacher.

This is just a small thing that fills me with purpose and content. Everything we do together and watching him become a better person than me is what keeps me going.