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Paying for sex. Way better than pretending you like somone and string them along for sex. Or worse force yourself on somebody. If you're going out the regular way you will probably spend just as much.
This way you get to do it with someone who looks the way you want, is a professional and therefore pretty good at what they do. Also you can probably get someone to fulfill the kink you're obsessing about but are unlikely to find somebody who's somehow equally interested in as yourself.
A problem is human traficing, but that's exactly why the taboo needs lifting. If people can have a sex job, be safe and self supporting and a tax paying member of society there's only upsides.
The insecurity and frustration in (mainly) young guys that need to get laid but 'would never pay for sex' out of some moral point of view is very detrimental to male-female relations. If this were more socially acceptable it would be of benefit to society.