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Discussions on Reddit was often exhausting and mentally draining. How can we make it less so on the fediverse? (beehaw.org)
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A bit too often taking part in discussions on Reddit was just mentally draining. Initially the topic looks so promising and I would love to discuss it. But too often people were not interested in sharing ideas beyond their own opinion, and many people were obsessed with "winning" the discussion.

Trying so discuss the finer points back and forth in a satisfying way was a rare occasion. Even In not so big subreddits you would think were filled with like minded people this was difficult. and comments were trying to end the discussion instead of coming with an idea and trying to further it.

How can we all promote good discussion on this site or the wider fediverse?

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[–] JCSpark@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I mean, if those points could buy marshmallows or something, that's worth gloating. Otherwise, it's an odd pursuit and use of time. I suppose it could be a form of primal resource hoarding, in a way.

[–] setsneedtofeed@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don’t disagree that it is irrational. This is exactly my point: The kinds of people who value meaningless points tied to their account create a lower standard of discussion. When the goal is more points at all costs, it conflicts with quality. The lack of account total points on Lemmy doesn’t appeal to such a person.

[–] JCSpark@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

Nailed it. I'm curious to see how that turns out. I love the idea that a user, community, or entire instance can be blocked to keep a higher standard of discussion.