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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/37235684

Obviously reporting transphobic comments to a transphobic mod isn't going to result in any action, so I'm wondering if the admins are going to do anything about it?

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[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 23 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (4 children)

I don’t know enough about sports, or the skeletomuscular and endocrine differences between someone AMAB and someone AFAB, to comment on the topic.

I’d much prefer to defend our trans community, but there’s way too much misinformation for me to get the valid and credible information needed to do so. Can someone please share some links so people like me can be educated enough to speak out in support?

[–] tree_frog@lemm.ee 21 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Read *Who's Afraid of Gender? *

The jest of it is that sometimes cis women have more testosterone than cis men. Even in top athletes.

And trans women on hrt have less than either.

I started transitioning over the summer, I've lost 15 lb of muscle mass.

Three decades of testosterone dominance made me tall and lanky. But no taller or more lanky than cis women I know. About the only major difference, as far as sports are concerned, would be my wider shoulders. And still needing to wear a cup I guess.

[–] Lemjukes@lemm.ee 14 points 5 days ago (1 children)

(Psst I think the word you meant was ‘gist’)

[–] tree_frog@lemm.ee 10 points 5 days ago

Oh thanks :)

Always fun to discover I've been misspelling a word for decades lol

[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

Perfect. I’ll definitely check that out. Thank you!

If anyone else is as strapped as I am, I just confirmed they have the E-book for loan on my local library website. Borrowing from the library may help authors less than purchase, but it’s still better than piracy.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I’d much prefer to defend our trans community, but...

Jfc...

Says the person who has clearly never even tried listening to trans people, but is more than happy to believe every piece of misinformation they hear about us then demand we labour for them to disprove it to their satisfaction, over the people they claim they wold actually "prefer" to defend, but aren't...

[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Judgmental much?

I’ve defended trans people in conversation about sports from a place of empathy. I imagine how I’d feel if some bureaucrats told me I had to play on a girls team. How out of place I’d feel at practice, in the locker room, on the bus to competitions, etc.

The problem I have is when right-wingers come at me with skeletomuscular advantage and detailed sports statistics, I’m in over my head. I won’t even broach the conversation any more, because I felt my lack of insight just helped them feel like they proved their point.

I could remain quiet, but I have a moral obligation to stand up for the oppressed. You don’t have to help inform me, but you don’t have to be a dick about it either.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Seconded

I'd like to know more about he topic.

[–] tree_frog@lemm.ee 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I replied to the above comment. Just letting you know if you want to take a look at what I had to say.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 5 days ago

Thanks! I'll give it a read