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It's especially jarring coming from Mastodon, which is broadly more diverse than Lemmy. I've witnessed some really questionable comments here during the last year. I really hope something can be done to improve things. I think a feminist-specific instance might be the best option, much in the way someplace like Hexbear has managed to create a fairly strong community bloc with strong core beliefs.
Sadly hexbear doesn't have a ton of really active comms specific to women. Though at least they're very aggressive removing misogyny across the instance. It's been categorically less stressful posting on hexbear vs the rest of lemmy simply because I'm not then checking an inbox with replies/dms calling me 'removed' or 'it' or other charming insults.
Removing downvotes makes sense too, though I also like keeping them and using them to ban people abusing it. The voter is only visible to admins though.
Hexbear might be safe for binary women, but as far as drag can tell, they're still sexist against a few million other gender identities. Drag went to Hexbear and searched for discussions about dragself pronouns. It wasn't good.
The one that I saw was positive, and if there was some negativity, it was far less than posters over on sjw and .world.
I wasn't able to find posts drag is referring to, as near as I can tell both instances drag uses defed hexbear. Feel free to send me a link.
I don't think creating more echo chambers is the right thing to do tbh
Echo chambers of...gender equality?
Not exactly the point. Spaces reserved for a specific community of people alone tend to be breeding grounds for extremist viewpoints and toxicity
Not sure you can call half the population a 'community' but OK. Women come from all walks of life and ideologies as I'm sure you'll have to imagine.
Also, even in the majority of women-centric spaces in the internet, men are still allowed s long as they aren't assholes. The only purpose would be to make a specific spot where women can post without fear of being harassed.
If you've participated in any women-centric sub on Reddit you'll know what I'm talking about. Try r/Askwomen, r/FemaleDatingStrategy or r/feminism. The toxicity on those subs is over the roof.
Something similar might happen if women-centric instances (not even communities) are created. Kinda like a hexbear-esque situation.
I have for years and haven't seen any of the toxicity you're talking about, except towards men showing up being right cunts. I'm guessing that's how you encountered it, too.
Nope, there's toxicity there and it's widely complained about on Reddit (including women themselves) - especially concerning the first two subs i mentioned. Have you considered you're one of the toxic participants?
Hint: reddit is also full of misogynists, kinda what it's known for. People discussing the toxicity of women centered subs tend to fall into that category.
No! This isn't the facts. Misogynists exist yes, but there's multiple complaints of mod and user behaviour concerning r/Askwomen and r/FemaleDatingStrategy. All you need to do is to search Reddit and you'll see multiple complaints.
Even women have complained. Why not try to be a bit open-minded?