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[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 8 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

Wouldn't the easy way out of that issue be to either seek out gay men or men who are in a relationship?

[–] Phantaminum@lemmy.zip 12 points 8 hours ago

As a man I kind of do the opposite, most of the girls I hang with are lesbian. That removes a lot of misunderstandings automatically and we can just vibe!

[–] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 10 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Wouldn't that be treating single straight men as if they're inherently dangerous? Is that what you recommend?

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 7 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Where did you get "dangerous" from? She wants to find people who want the same thing as she does, and evidently she didn't have luck trying to find a friend among single hetero/bi men. So why not try a different group of men?

Anyway, feel free to offer alternative strategies.

[–] PatrickYaa@lemmy.one 9 points 9 hours ago

Pretty sure you're missing a "/s" there bud.