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Hi European here.

I always heard America is pretty competitive and that the people are very direct/speak their mind.

I'm quite the sensitive person, so I was wondering if it could be hard for me if I would ever go to America and if I needed to become more "tough".

And would someone like me even be welcomed or would I be rejected?

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[–] Daze@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Sensitivity is more than fine! You'd fit right in. However, you very much need to be able to firmly advocate for yourself, and be confident in what is necessary for your health needs.

[–] ziviz@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 1 week ago (10 children)

I feel like it also depends on where you go. It's a big country and the culture can be drastically different in different areas, even within the same state.

[–] Badge@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

True. I just don't get why so many Americans can be so confident. I hope I can keep up with that. Cause my parents ruined my confidence with all the trauma they introduced to me. But maybe it would help just going out of the country of my parents

[–] Daze@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Literally just lean into your accent and it'll carry you 100% of the way through conversation 😜 Don't even worry about feeling like you're hamming it up. We can't tell the difference!

[–] Badge@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

What do you mean by accent? I can only do an American accent (maybe a little British if I try hard)

[–] Daze@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No I mean your native accent. I see you're from germany, and while you might not think you have one, I'd dare to assure you that you do! Even baseline "American" is technically transatlantic IIRC

[–] Badge@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think I watched too much American TV it's kinda hard for me to do the German accent now and it feels weird to do tbh

[–] Entropywins@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Unless it's absolutely perfect, a native speaker will pick up your accent...how's your "th" that's usually a dead give away for native German speakers.

[–] Badge@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Yea it definitely doesn't sound as bad as many other Germans but I don't have the American sound down to the nuances so you could definitely tell. Idk why but I think it's quite hard to get the nuance if you haven't been raised with the language, it sucks if you don't sound 100% authentic, I hope it will come with time.

But you really have to study each tone down to its core including its cultural context to get it perfectly. Imma try to do that though for sure

[–] Nougat@fedia.io 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Seriously, no need to change. There are so many accents across the US, and if you're anywhere vaguely urban you're going to hear English speakers from all over the world.

And the correct response to any Americans who give you a hard time for having a foreign accent is "How many languages do you speak?"

[–] Entropywins@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I barely speak my native language...

[–] PirateFrog@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

I'd say in general, if you have any sort of German accent, people in the US will find that intriguing and endearing.

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