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submitted 2 days ago by Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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[–] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

What do you mean tops?

[–] Danitos@reddthat.com 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

In case you are serious: opposite of bottoms.

In gay relationships there's usually a bottom (passive) person and a top (active) person.

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

i mean i'd say that's pretty standard for humanity in general, no? not really just a gay thing.

[–] Danitos@reddthat.com 4 points 1 day ago

Yeah, I guess so yeah. But in gay communities is veeery notorious, as 2 tops or 2 bottoms will be a big sexual incompatibility.

[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Same for the Kink community as well

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Needs to be noted:

Top =/= Dominant

Bottom =/= Submissive