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Is it just me, or when you become "the tech guy", family and friends become extremely entitled to your help? (lemmy.world)

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I wish I never told anyone I worked or studied tech. Especially older family and friends, because their requests for help are relentless.

A lot of friends are chill with it, and I don't mind doing a little bit of help, but sometimes people are who are OFFENDED when you don't want to help. In the same way a contractor friend won't remodel your home for free, I am not going to fix every single issue you have with your computer for free. I'm happy to give advice, but i'm not going to work for hours without pay to fix everything.

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[–] weeeeum@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Oh god my mom says this all the fucking time. I help my old babysitter the most, whenever I can, because even throughout my parents divorce, and without pay, she kept taking care of my sisters and I. Even though she was extremely poor and working another job. My moms just outright abusive.