A terminally ill boy had his dying wish granted in Australia this month, but ethicists are still at odds over whether it was the right thing to do. The wish was not for a trip to Disneyland or to meet a famous sports star. Instead, the 15-year-old wanted to lose his virginity before he died of cancer. The boy, who remains anonymous but was called Jack by the Australian media, did not want his parents to know about his request. Because of his many years spent in the hospital, he had no girlfriend or female friends. Jack died last week, but not before having his last wish granted. Without the knowledge of his parents or hospital staff, friends arranged an encounter with a prostitute outside of hospital premises. All precautions were taken, and the organizers made sure the act was fully consensual. The issue has sparked fierce debate over the legal and ethical implications of granting the boy's request. By law, Jack was still a child, and the woman involved could in theory face charges for having sex with a minor. The debate was sparked by the hospital's child psychologist, who wrote a letter to "Life Matters," a radio show in which academics debate ethical and moral dilemmas. The scenario was presented in the abstract, with no details about the boy's identity.

"He had been sick for quite a long period, and his schooling was very disrupted, so he hadn't had many opportunities to acquire and retain friends, and his access to young women was pretty poor," the psychologist said recently in an interview with Australia's Daily Telegraph newspaper. "But he was very interested in young women and was experiencing that surge of testosterone that teenage boys have." Hospital staff initially wanted to pool donations to pay for a prostitute, but the ethical and legal implications prevented them from doing so. The psychologist presented members of the clergy with the dilemma and found no clear answer. "It really polarized them," he said. "About half said, 'What's your problem?' And the other half said [it] demeans women and reduces the sexual act to being just a physical one."

Dr. Stephen Leeder, dean of medicine at the University of Sydney and a "Life Matters" panelist, said the issue was a difficult one. "I pointed out that public hospitals operated under the expectation that they would abide by state law," he said. "While various things doubtless are done that are at the edge of that, it's important the public has confidence that the law will be followed." Jack's psychologist, who works with children in palliative care, said the desire was driven in part by a need for basic human contact. "In a child dying over a long period of time, there is often a condition we call 'skin hunger,'" he said. The terminally ill child yearns for non-clinical contact because "mostly when people touch them, it's to do something unpleasant, something that might hurt." Leeder called the diagnosis "improbable." Judy Lumby, the show's other panelist and the executive director of the New South Wales College of Nursing, argued that the details as presented made it abundantly clear the boy's wish ought to be granted. "I said that I would try my darndest as a nurse to do whatever I could to make sure his wish came true," she said. "I just think we are so archaic in the way we treat people in institutions. Certainly, if any of my three daughters were dying, I'd do whatever I could, and I'm sure that you would, too." National Post”

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[–] exploitedamerican@lemm.ee 0 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Need to attack the problem at the root, corporatism which is a synonym of fascism. Personally I don’t see a solution to fix things that doesn't involve violent revolution. Even if enough of the bottom 70% of workers could all get together and strike, at minimum 35% of the bottom initiating a general strike that will continue until terms are met. But even then i feel that will lead to violent militarized suppression from the owner class who will force people striking to work. Those in power have made a real mess of things.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Please stop calling everything fascism. Plain old Authoritarianism is bad too. Corporations don't want a cult of personality or huge rallies. They want people disengaged and hopeless.

I also disagree about the necessity of violence. If we get enough of a movement they can't just resort to violence. Most of the modern movements have been by mass of people in the street.

[–] exploitedamerican@lemm.ee 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I call fascism fascism and that is what we now have, the intersection of corporate and military industrial power controlling our government and using their media outlets to spread propaganda. Fascism is marked by; the protection of corporate power, the suppression of labor power, controlled Media disseminating propaganda, disdain for human rights, disdain towards intellectualism, unification over a scapegoated class of people as a common enemy, rampant corruption and cronyism/nepotism, obsession with crime & punishment, powerful displays of nationalism, government and a preferred religion intertwining, normalized sexism, glorification of militarism, a surveillance state with militarized police forces who use secret police under the pretense of national security, and fraudulent elections. These are all the defining characteristics of fascism. And the only one of those you can argue may not be present is the last one but i would even argue that its very likely our national presidential elections have been fraudulent ever since FDR died.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

You forgot a cult of personality, a belief in collective action, and state control of corporations and religion.

A fascist would tell you there's no need to suppress labor because the party takes care of it's workers. Likewise worries about human rights are overblown because the people understand they're part of a grand nationalist project. The chosen enemy of a fascist state is dissidents of any race. You're confusing Fascism with Nazism here.

There's a lot there that's also Authoritarian. Such as the secret police, displays of military power (less for pride, more as a warning), fraudulent elections, corruption and nepotism, and controlled media.

In many ways Fascism is just a populist form of Authoritarianism; An Authoritarian state where the people cheer for the death squads. The chosen enemy is the trait that stands Nazism apart. Mussolini and other Fascists did not share Hitler's belief in racial superiority.

The biggest argument against the US being Authoritarian (much less Fascist) right now is the continued existence of independent media and the Democratic Party. Also, despite claims to the contrary elections are pretty good in the US. We really did just choose the bad option. Nobody guaranteed any of the above with Democracy. We were always free to vote for the bad stuff. Democracy guarantees nothing but the ability to vote.