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Yes you are. Not caring about those details? You don't deserve your cat.
I never said I was going to feed the item to my cat. I said I was giving my aunt an item so she would be satisfied. Does that make sense?
What an absolutely weird thing to be lying about.
I think most of us would just be honest with our aunt about what we need. Or just travel together.
I'm not lying and won't fall for your bait; you're trying to put me on the defensive and get me to offer more context by insulting me. Pound sand.
Judging only by your responses in this thread, you seem to have no difficulty going on the defensive, even when it doesn't seem to be warranted.
So your plan for satisfying your aunt's presumed intent to reduce waste is to create more waste? That's still in the "jerk" zone. Could even be considered petty.
I don't get to act on presumed intent, I get to act on present behavior. We'd all be a mess if we were obligated to guess what everyone else wanted. And the behavior was, "I want to buy something for you" --> my agreement --> "that's not enough for me, give me more". Notice that waste never came into the discussion, even after the conversation ended with me cancelling the purchase of the products, which you could have intuited meant there would be no waste
It's wasteful for both of you to drive there separately, therefore her intent isn't something to be guessed. It's laid out quite plainly in front of you.
You offered the cat products for her to purchase. It's not something she asked for specifically from the conversation you have shared here.
Not her cat. She doesn't know what brands your cat likes or what they look like. It's very reasonable to ask for this kind of details in case what she chooses to buy isn't agreeable to your cat.
However, you're fully in your right to choose not to socialize. You just did it wrong this time.
Your mistake was the first answer.
You engaged and set the tone. What followed was a complete wreck. Honestly, you and your aunt are on different wavelengths in terms of social customs. Blame it on a generational thing if you don't get why and leave it at that.
All in all, you should have probably stopped with "no thanks." Everything said after had you make trouble for yourself without reason.
You were going to eat the cat snacks yourself then?