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Why not followup with - 'it doesn't matter the color brand flavor or type of litter, and the pet cat isle, thanks you for grabbing these items for me'.
I don't see why you'd get upset with a logical follow-up clarification question
There is more backstory I recon. Also poster is likely on the spectrum.
"reckon" not "recon". Your casual misuse of language suggests you're not qualified to diagnose anyone's mental health, but I'm not interested in anything you'd be offering anyway. Have a day. ๐ซฑ
It's "aisle," not "isle," by the way.
Pobrecita
Please go to therapy.
I didn't follow up because I was already pushed past my limit. My aunt and I disagreed because we both wanted a thing, and only one of us could have it. I caved and gave it to her, and she asked for more.
I got upset with a logical follow-up clarification question for the reason in my original post (lol): "I clearly don't care about those details; if I wanted something specific I would have told her that. The only reason I mentioned them was to appease her."
Then you should be saying that to your aunt, instead of losing your patience. People aren't MIND readers. It is as easy as "I will use any brands you buy."
If you get this irate over normal life (consistantly), then you should talk to a professional.
Edit: asks if I'm the asshole? Gets irate when people say yes. :). If the issue is your aunt being overbearing check out the DEARMAN principle. It will help you with relations.
I should? What else should I be doing in this relationship? Lol. You keep saying I should get help, but I think you're got a weird idea about what help is. Seems like your idea of "help" is minimizing other people's pain and ignoring context when it's convenient. I'll pass, thanks. I'm going to ban you from my instance so you won't be able to respond like this any further, it's hurtful and I deserve better.
Somebody asked you if you wanted help and you blew up on them. If that isn't a sign of change needed idk what is. Regardless of what is happening, it's no way to treat people and you will push the people you love the most with your attitude. Take it from someone who immediately recognized the situation, you'll need to mitigate something or you will be unhappy. Best of luck, you probably won't even read this lol.
I can't interpret your comments in this thread any other way than that you are seeking not help, but validation for your unwillingness to grow.
The idea of help you're complaining about is quite consistent with good help according to the local lemmyites it seems, and I have to agree. Are you quite sure you're not minimizing others pain and ignoring context when it's convenient for you? Just because your pain is real does not mean you are free of responsibility.
This is exactly the kind of thing professional help is ideal for. Let an expert guide you in discovering ways you might change your views and behavior such that your needs are better met. Shaking your fist at the world isn't going to make you one iota happier, no matter how well justified your anger might be.