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I tried chatting on some of the recommended apps on Reddit and I can confirm that none of them work.

Which bring me to the following question: How do you find people who are interested in long-term relationships online?

Note: Please don't suggest looking in the real life.

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[–] shani66@ani.social 52 points 5 days ago (3 children)
[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 28 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

Just when the guild splinters in two because a clique will fix all the problems with the old guild, always go with the new folk, they will appreciate your loyalty. At least until y'all invariably splinter again, but then you'll get new appreciation!

[–] RagnarokOnline@programming.dev 17 points 5 days ago

This person guilds

[–] figjam@midwest.social 2 points 4 days ago

They didn't take me because I wasn't willing to raid 4 nights a week. I also wasn't a tank

[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 days ago

Genuinely met my partner on ESO

[–] 211@sopuli.xyz 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Met my partner in a MUD, kind of a text-based pre-MMO. He was tank, I was healer, it was meant to be.

In general, talking with people who are doing a thing you are interested in too. The way I see it, maybe 10% of people are "friend" potential, 1% "good friend" potential, and .1% partner potential. You'll want to look in populations where you have something in common with the people, and thus the odds a bit higher.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Holy shit other people mentioning a MUD. Not something i expected to hear today

[–] 211@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 days ago

Idling at sc, spamming heal all as regen allowed. Good times.