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Been there done that.
A few years back I went back to an old Internet haunt that I hadn't been to in more years still.
People were there, chatting, including at least one person I knew who'd been there previously. I should have taken the hint when he joked that he "didn't spend a lot of time there, honest" (paraphrase), but I basically picked up where I'd left off years before rather than feel out the new vibe. There were about twenty or so people there at first, and I only really noticed when there were ten or so left and they weren't saying much.
I left. Haven't had the nerve to go back. If I do, I'll try to feel out the vibe first.
In the meantime, I've found other places to hang out and different people. But I still try to reel myself in occasionally, just in case.