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[–] rikudou@lemmings.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That would mean there's no responsibility for anything. You raped someone? That's just your genes/upbringing and not your fault! Murdered someone? Same!

That's a very dangerous way of thinking. You are responsible for your actions. Many things shaped you, but you do have a choice.

[–] Dave@lemmy.nz 1 points 2 weeks ago

It's a philosophical argument, not directions for how to live your life!

I think it works better for giving others the benefit of the doubt instead of blaming people who have made poor decisions for not "pulling themselves up by their bootstraps". But you definitely should not try it in reverse, "I'm gonna go get addicted to drugs because it's not my fault" 🫤