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"The election of Donald Trump has sparked a surge of interest in the United States in South Korea’s 4B movement, a radical feminist crusade that preaches the four B’s: bi-hon (no marriage), bi-yeonae (no dating), bi-sekseu (no sex) and bi-chulsan (no childbirth),” the Los Angeles Times reports.

“Since Nov. 5, there have been more than 500,000 Google searches for ‘4b movement,’ while on TikTok, Instagram and X, support for the cause has been trending among young women voters who are vowing to swear off men.”

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[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

This idea is so stupid, in my opinion. Liberal women are likely with liberal partners—they will be punishing their allies. Punishing allied men for things that other people have done is a good way to radicalize them into becoming republicans.

The more we solve our problems by withdrawing from each other and punishing each other, especially those who are not the direct cause of our problems, the more we exacerbate the division in this country.

The only people who should be withholding sex from loving partners when they would otherwise be interested are people who are sleeping with a Musk or a Trump. Everyone else is just causing more hurt with no positive outcome.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's to protect against pregnancy in an environment where women's rights have been eroded.

If Project 2025 takes away abortion rights and even contraceptives, sex becomes a really big risk.

[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The movement is to deny sex, not specifically to deny pregnancy. If it was about that, then sterile men and women would be excluded from this movement, but there is no mention of that at all. It’s just “swear off men, swear off sex”.

[–] raynethackery@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

bi-chulsan (no childbirth)

See, this is one of the FOUR Bs.

Being pregnant is risky enough in an enlightened society where no healthcare is withheld. I'm not a woman but I don't blame them for trying to protect themselves.

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

There's what is stated and what is implied. In the absence of any sort of formal or "official" organization, participants get to choose their own level of involvement.

I often refer to "birthstrike" as a conceptually similar and related group.

[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Well they should consider making the implication clearer, because I honestly feel that the way it is stated will do more harm than good. If it is a birth strike aimed at abortion risks, then call it that.

I have supported women’s rights in every way I know how in my lifetime, but I can’t go along with this movement as it is currently stated—to me that suggests that they need to refine the messaging a little, or explain the desired outcome more clearly.

[–] CharlesDarwin@lemmy.world 2 points 21 hours ago

Indeed, it seems this messaging may end up with the same energy as "defund the police" did...an albatross to put around the necks of the majority of people in this country (even if they don't always vote. FFS.).

Also, the chuds are just going to call all the liberal men dating liberal women "cucks" even more at this point...this will feed right into their enjoyment and they are going to bask in it.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Punishing allied men for things that other people have done is a good way to radicalize them into becoming republicans.

If not getting your dick wet turns you into a republican you were never a real ally.

[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

That is reducing my point to the most inflammatory interpretation.

Some men have been very negatively impacted by the political climate of the last 10 years too. They have weathered a lot of “white man” blame while trying to be a force for good. They have voted as an ally, protested as an ally, and held their peers accountable. And now their partner cuts off physical affection.

A man doesn’t have to be a false ally for those realities to put him in a psychological place that will make him vulnerable to conservative manipulators. It opens the door to the question “how’s your liberalism working for you?”

Denial of physical affection is a real grievance, and outside of this protest, it is usually considered an issue that needs to be fixed in a relationship. Think hard before intentionally creating relationship issues to prove a political/moral point.

[–] eatthecake@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago

4B is not women witholding sex from their partners. It's single women choosing to stay that way and be celibate. Maybe you should find out what it is before taking it personally.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

And now their partner cuts off physical affection.

Sex is not the only form of physical affection.

A man doesn’t have to be a false ally for those realities to put him in a psychological place that will make him vulnerable to conservative manipulators.

If he can't recognize conservative manipulation then he's maybe not a false ally, but a pretty terrible one.

The reason I hate that your response is so common is it perpetuates the stereotype of men requiring sex to prevent then from becoming animals. It's a subtle form of misandry that so many men force on others.

[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You are taking only the most inflammatory version of what I’m saying. Sex isn’t the only intimacy, but it is a very powerful tool for that. There are strong biological drives for sexual expression and satisfaction, and denying those leads to emotional problems—we see this all the time with homosexuals who can’t be happy in a heterosexual box. If someone has been manipulated by one of the most advanced propaganda machines ever created, that isn’t a sign that they are a “terrible” ally.

I’m not saying men only want sex, I’m saying that suddenly taking away a biological tool for human connection that they have typically had, while also living though really difficult times, while also acting like the continued desire for sex is somehow selfish on the man’s part, is a really effective way to make someone listen to the opposing side when they are promising a fiction where men have it good again.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world -2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

tl;dr - If men don’t get their dick wet they’ll become republicans.

[–] WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That is not what I was saying, and I don’t appreciate your interpretation of it.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I’m saying that suddenly taking away a biological tool for human connection that they have typically had... is a really effective way to make someone listen to the opposing side when they are promising a fiction where men have it good again.

If men don't have the "biological tool for human connection" then they'll "listen to the opposing side" sounds a lot like "If you don't fuck me I'll turn MAGA."