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[–] Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 42 points 2 months ago (6 children)

"Why didn't you show your work, so I can see how you think?"

Because I did it in my head and got the right answer. This isn't about you.

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 34 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

The "show your work" is about checking if you understand the logic in getting the answer. We had lots of questions out of 5. Right answer was only worth 1 mark, the other 4 were the steps and reasoning. This type of setup punishes those that skip right to the answer, or have memorized answers. But rewards those that show they know the concepts

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 25 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Ok but forcing me to show my work was one of those things I hated until I was extremely grateful for it. I didn’t need to show my work to prove my answer was correct in elementary school, but it was a slow drift from “I can do it in my head with ease” to “I need to document my steps so I can check where the error occurred”. Also “it’s not enough to be correct, you need to be correct with evidence” is the reality for people who do math for a living

[–] Entropywins@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Best I can do is lots of evidence proving I'm incorrect...

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

Better than no evidence

[–] Somsphet@lemmy.zip 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Literally every single damn math class I ever took

[–] Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I had to retake an algebra 2 exam multiple times because they thought I was cheating- including sitting IN the principal's office, yet the scores were all within points of each other.

They were so fucking salty about it too when there was no "gotcha." I wish I could time travel back to advocate for myself, because I would have TORN THEM A NEW ONE. My parents were apathetic cowards.

Like all cutting injustices, it's stuck with me.

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I deconstructed the underlying methodology of the creator of the system in order to understand their internalized blind spots or artificial limitations imposed on them by unrelated third parties at the time of the systems creation.

It’s funny, because in high school, I remember getting poor marks on proofs - and HATING them - because I was like “this is so fucking obvious jesus tap dancing christ” and just… skipped lots of steps.

Fast forward to college and logic theory: that ended up being one of my favorite classes, because machine theory and problem reduction is a fascinating domain, and FAR more interesting than “prove this shape is the shape we say it is” or whatever vapid bullshit they had us doing in high school.

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Lol I hated this too, I really did. But like a lot of answers here, I can appreciate it somewhat now. Especially when trying to learn to code.

I think learning to break down problems might even be MORE valuable to people like us with ADHD, even if we hate it, because we tend to intuit our way through things by the seat of our pants.

Also sometimes I got really lucky and arrived at the correct answer in a bizarre and inconsistent way.

In the end, it's very valuable to be able to communicate your process to others. Even if it's irritating and awful to get through.

I also wonder if those like myself, who really REALLY hated math until my brain started to appreciate it in my adult years, just gnash our teeth at these memories because it made us feel stupid when we struggled to keep up with that slow, methodical raw-logic stuff...

EDIT: I can see you were the polar opposite of myself, ridiculously GOOD at math but found it a waste of time showing how you got there. That makes sense. I have zero idea what that's like lol.

[–] Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 2 points 2 months ago

I wouldn't have minded it nearly as much, had they not accused me of cheating on the exam. That sticks in the craw.