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I think a lot of times the scenes are still done heavily through a male gaze. You'll see more frontal of her than you ever will of a man.
Sex in movies always felt awkward because usually it's a plot device to push the male character's story, a 'reward' for the male character... Or just one of many sexual assault scenes bestowed on nearly every female character ever because "DRAMA."
Not all sex scenes are like this, but a LOT of sex scenes are like this.
You never get full frontal of dudes because many of even the most sex-positive people hold a double standard against penises. Any time a penis might have to be on screen, it's vulgar to them and at most belongs in humor.
They do show them now, although a lot less frequently. What's fucked up about it is that they use giant prosthetic penises, and the majority of men already have insecurities around that area, regardless of their size.
I remember seeing people complain that Game of Thrones has too many dicks swinging around. I can remember one specifically from the entirety of the show: towards the beginning of the show, possibly season 2 or 3, there was an assassination plot against Khaleesi and they left one of them alive so they could pull him with their horses while he was naked and bound. That's the only one I remember seeing from that whole show.
And then in The Boys there's only like two they've shown so far? Who is seeing all these dicks where there aren't any?
I mean, The Boys isn't a great example. It's kinda rife with dicks. There's guys hanging dong, there's people going inside dicks, there's exploding dicks, there's self-elongating dicks, there's (in the spin off) a person climbing a dick.
They've been showing full frontal male nudity over the last 10 or so years, which was never done before.
Not anyway near the same way they show women. It's usually brief and then still spent more on her being the sexual one. He gets to be gruff and whatever.